So I have this guy friend that I think is awesome.... He is really cool... (Not cool in a hot type way), okay since he may be reading this, he is hot but not to me :p... Anyway, I've always thought the idea of having a best friend that was a guy was really cool (my sister is my best friend but he would be one of the few people I would call if I ever did something crazy that requires that I be in panic mode). I guess part of our bond is that we are actually going through similar phases in life and so it makes it easier to motivate each other and to share ideas.
So he recently got a girlfriend and I've been so happy for him. I've never met her or anything but from pictures, I think she is really cute and I told him that he does know how to pick them. Somewhere somehow, I found out that she does not like me (I guess she feels threatened by our friendship).... She's never met me before yet she does not like me. Funny thing is she has absolutely nothing to worry about. I would make an attempt to try to meet up with her but we dont live close to each other. Obviously, I dont bother him as much with my just because calls/conversations/questions because I've been busy and also because I respect his relationship.
I dont know that I can blame her because to be honest, I'm not sure how I would feel in a situation like that but since I've learned that guys and girls can honestly have a friendship without emotions involved, I want to believe I would be fine. I would try to meet up with her whenever the occasion arrises hopefully that would make her feel better. Either way, whatever decision my guy friend decides to take, I would be fine with. But if for some reason he decides that he has to cut off our friendship, I dont THINK I would ever take him seriously if he changes his mind later.
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I can empathize with you because I have been in the same boat. The twist in my case is , the girl and I were really friendly prior to dating my guy friend. They broke up anyway and she pretty much resents me. The truth is that any woman who feels that way has some security issues. His new girl is just sweet as pie... Its not you ..its her.
Yeah I figured what is there to worry about, He knew me before he knew you, if we never dated before and he is now dating you then you should have nothing to worry about. Now if I had dated this guy in the past, I can almost see why she would be nervous. Thanks
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